The Uella Perspective

  Have you ever considered that from the moment of conception, there is a battle over your child? It’s not just you anticipating the birth—God is waiting, and so is the enemy. "She was pregnant and cried out in pain as she was about to give birth. The dragon stood in front of the woman who was about to give birth, so that it might devour her child the moment he was born."   Revelation 12:2‭, ‬4b NIV Have you also ever wondered why raising a godly child feels like warfare? Why some children face resistance even before birth? The truth is, the enemy isn’t passive—he’s strategic. He waits at the door of every destiny, seeking to corrupt or destroy it before it fully manifests. Why You Must Pray Over What You Birth The moment you conceive—whether a child, a vision, a dream, or a purpose—you must recognize that it carries divine intent. But where God plants a purpose, the enemy plants opposition. God is waiting for your children because He has designed them for a mission . Th...

How possible is it to achieve a thing without actually doing it? Even in the sentence, "I want to write that book," the action word is write. "I want to climb that mountain," the action word is climb. The truth is simple: audacity is the bridge between the idea and the reality . You dream big, create detailed plans, and set ambitious goals. You draft timelines and envision success. Yet, for all those brilliant ideas, many of you remain stuck on the left side of the bridge. Why? Because without audacity, those dreams remain exactly that—dreams. What is Audacity? Audacity is boldness. It’s daring . It’s the confident disregard of your comfort zones, or conventional thinking . I t’s about risking your pride or the security of your comfort zone. Audacity pushes you to face the fears that keep you rooted in inaction. The Left Side of the Bridge: Where Dreams Remain Dreams Your mind is a powerhouse of ideas. It can conjure up incredible visions and even map out the pro...

Life is a series of experiences, each one shaping the path we walk. Sometimes, all it takes is one action, one moment, one decision , to redirect the course of a life—for better or for worse. Have you ever paused to consider how one seemingly small event can trigger a cascade of consequences? One traumatic experience can spark a downward spiral. One word spoken in anger can destroy a relationship. One exposure to something harmful can plant a seed that grows into destructive habits. One heartbreak can turn a tender soul into a hardened one. One exposure to darkness can cast a shadow over an entire lifetime. Have you ever stopped to reflect on how one pivotal moment has shaped your life? How one experience, good or bad, has set you on the path you’re walking today? The Power of One Moment I’ve listened to stories that haunt me—stories of people who were thrust onto paths they never chose. A single traumatic event, a wrong crowd, or even a fleeting temptation was enough to alter their co...

Dear Mothers-in-Law, I deeply understand your desire to see your son marry a kind, respectful, and home-trained woman. From the moment you held your son in your arms, you made a silent promise to guide, nurture, and protect him. But as he grows, so does his independence—and one day, he brings someone special into his life: his chosen partner. For you, this moment is bittersweet. The joy of seeing your son step into a new chapter often mingles with worry about whether his partner will complement him, share his values, and bring harmony to his life. These feelings are valid, but how you approach this phase can either strengthen your family or sow seeds of discord.S Surface Tests Are Unreliable One common scenario is the expectation that a lady visiting your home for the first time should eagerly jump into household chores to prove her worth. While this may seem like a way to gauge her character, it’s essential to recognize that such actions can easily be feigned. A single act of sweeping...

Have you ever found yourself trapped in the memories of the past—reliving old victories, nursing wounds from past failures, or holding onto relationships that no longer serve you? It’s a cycle that can feel comforting yet confining, leaving us blind to the opportunities right in front of us. The truth is, as powerful as our past may seem, it has no power over our present unless we allow it. Isaiah 43:18-19 beautifully reminds us: "Do not [earnestly] remember the former things; neither consider the things of old.  Behold, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs forth; do you not perceive and know it and will you not give heed to it?" These words hold a transformative truth: to experience the fullness of life today, we must let go of what was and embrace what is. What Does “Dwelling in the Past” Look Like? Dwelling on the past can manifest in different ways, often without us even realizing it: 1. Past Relationships Have you ever judged a new partner through the lens of an old re...

"Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh." — Genesis 2:24 (NKJV) Marriage is a profound mystery—a union of two individuals coming together to walk as one. But what does it truly mean to embrace oneness in marriage ?  Does it mean losing your voice or individuality? Far from it! Instead, it’s about aligning your strengths, values, and goals to create a harmonious partnership. The saying "United we stand, divided we fall" perfectly encapsulates the essence of marriage .  What Does Oneness Mean? "Now the whole earth had one language and one speech." — Genesis 11:1 (NKJV) In Genesis 11:1-7, this principle takes on a profound meaning. A shared "language" isn't merely about words; it’s about having a common vision, values, and goals. For a husband and wife, oneness means presenting a united front—a cohesive partnership where decisions, affirmations, and boundaries are aligned. Wh...

  When you first got married, love overflowed in every action. You looked into your spouse’s eyes and felt butterflies. Cooking for them was an act of joy, and you went out of your way to make sure they felt cherished. You didn’t just prepare a meal; you crafted an experience—seasoned with love and topped with care. But now? Years later, the romance feels more like a routine, and the spark seems distant. It’s not uncommon for many couples to feel this way. The busyness of life—work deadlines, raising children, and countless responsibilities—seems to replace the passion that once burned brightly. . Love Is More Than Just a Checklist Imagine this: A husband provides for his family, pays the bills, and ensures everyone is safe and comfortable. A wife cooks, cleans, and tends to the children. From the outside, it looks like the perfect setup. But inside, something crucial is missing. They’ve mastered the doing—fulfilling roles and responsibilities—but forgotten the being. The shared la...

  Source: Pexels Imagine a church that worked tirelessly for Jesus' name—hating evil, enduring suffering, and faithfully serving. Yet, their love for Him had diminished over time. It wasn’t that they stopped loving Him, but it wasn’t the same as it once was . Isn't it scary? A church that gave their all away for Jesus' sake but then what disqualified them is that they were far from their first love for God.  This reflects the warning Jesus gave to the church in Ephesus: "Yet I hold this against you: You have forsaken the love you had at first. Consider how far you have fallen! Repent and do the things you did at first." – Revelation 2:4-5 Could this reflect our own lives sometimes? We go through the motions , doing things out of responsibility rather than love . It’s easy to get caught up in the work and forget why we started. The Heart of the Matter: Fellowship Source: Pexels What was the symbol of their first love?  Fellowship with the Holy Spirit It’s not jus...

 Imagine this: you’re preparing to host a guest. You’ve sent out an invitation, cleaned your house, cooked a delicious meal, and ensured everything is perfect. Now, picture another scenario where someone shows up at your door unannounced. You’re caught off guard, your house might be a mess, and you’re scrambling to make them comfortable. The difference in how we treat these situations is clear. This same principle applies to our relationship with Jesus in our homes. Is He someone you’ve consciously invited in, or does He feel like an uninvited visitor in your life? Have You Kept Your Wedding Day Promise? When couples get married, they often vow to put God at the center of their marriage. But over time, as life’s challenges arise, that promise can easily get buried beneath responsibilities and routines. God doesn’t want to simply be a symbolic part of your marriage—He desires to dwell in it. The Bible reminds us, “Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain” (Psalm...

Love should be one of the most beautiful experiences in life, right? Sure, it’s not always a bed of roses , but it shouldn’t feel like a bed of thorns either. Unfortunately, for some, love starts to feel more like a constant battle. Instead of enjoying each other’s company, you're always fighting. And instead of building a deeper connection, you're caught up in endless quarrels. But is that really normal? Should every moment with your partner feel like a struggle? Let’s take a deeper look. When Love Starts to Feel Like a Battle It’s easy to tell when love begins to feel like a battle. When quality time turns into constant bickering , and every conversation leads to a heated argument, something’s off. You’re no longer learning about each other or sharing moments of joy. Instead, you're wrapped up in disagreements, big and small. Is It Bad to Have Disagreements? Not at all ! Disagreements are a normal part of any relationship. After all, you and your partner are two differen...